Mer’s Blog

Your arrival had brought so much joy and laughters to all your uncles and aunties. While happily chatting how would you little one be, your sudden departure had shocked everyone and left us in speechless tears.

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We could not feel less pain than your parent that hold you so shortly; for you are bonded with us by flesh and blood. We could not feel less pain than your parent to loss you while your arrival have been prepared and celebrated; for we love them as much as we could not bear the pain to flood them.

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We are so certain that you will be reborn in a noble or better realm; for you were taking a short tour to change your destiny as you probably know they are devoted Buddhist. We joy for you not have to experience suffering life that we experienced; for your mental state is so clear and pure. We cried for your parent that love you dearly - for they have to strongly and bravely walk the way out of losing the love one. We still cry, as we share the pain of their loss, and we try to find comfort in the teachings of the Buddha, we hope they do too. It is impossible to divorce ourselves from such pain, but we have to try and carry on with life ahead.

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Time heals all wounds. ALL. Without exception.

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You have taught us invaluable lessons of life in a tough manner. Your presence are to make all of us stronger than ever. You will be forever remembered and loved by your parent and us. We believe your strong parent will, and soon, with help of Dharma, and your blessing, to celebrate the oncoming arrival of your other siblings.

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May all being free from mental and physical suffering. May all be well, happy and peaceful.

We will always love and miss you, dear baby James.